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Shakira Peronet's avatar

I remember a friend of mind only liked to date the “damsel in distress” type of woman. A major red flag 🚩, but he really enjoyed swooping these women out of hard situations and inserting them into his life, full of gratitude!

Why was I friends with him again?!?

Anyway you’re incredible , yes even during a rough patch, you are a catch 🎣 !

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Tola Doll Fisher's avatar

Oh gosh I’ve heard that too many times it’s wild! But explains a lot of what we see in Hollywood (on screen) where it’s the supposedly clumsy ah chaotic women that “get the guy”.

I mean honestly, miss me with that! But I did love Issa Rae’s Insecure turning the strong black woman trope on its head and having a chaotic black woman lead.

And thank yooooou! 💁🏾‍♀️

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Shakira Peronet's avatar

Insecure! The best!

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